Tbh I think that when an autistic person says something and you interpret it in a way you think is offensive and then the autistic person is like "no I didn't mean it that way" you should probably just consider the possibility that they actually didn't mean it that way instead of preparing the pyre
Some time ago, one of my best friends said that they found me abrasive until they learned to ask "what did you mean by that" when something came off wrong, and then my intended meaning would always be different than what they thought I meant.
We've gotten along great ever since.
rip to all the “fuckyeah___” blogs that carried our society at one point </3
we are in the midst of a true Real One
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